Ayla Besemer
Staff Reporter
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My Week as a Blonde

A couple of weeks ago, I told my mom I wanted to get bangs. She suggested this sudden need to change appearance — last time […]

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Ask Ayla: Welcome to Yale, Frosh

Hey, y’all, Ayla here, coming to you from Colorado. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m WKND’s resident Sex-and-Love advice columnist. I’m here […]

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Ask Ayla: A Year In Review – And in Music

Welcome to the final Ask Ayla of this school year (I’ll be back). I wanted to offer some final reflections, but I realized this year […]

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Ask Ayla: Goodbyes

Question: We’re approaching the end of the year, yet somehow I’m still meeting new people to whom I’m romantically attracted. Are short-term, whirlwind, often intense […]

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Question: I’m attracted to one of my best friends, and we’ve come close to hooking up a few times. We both want to, but I’m […]

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Ask Ayla

This week, let’s address your questions about the ever-present romantic force in our generation: dating apps. Question 1: I just matched with this amazing girl […]

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Ask Ayla: Time’s Up

Hello and Happy New Year! Onward we go, a new year full of new conversations and resolutions. I wanted my first column of 2018 to […]

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Question: Do men and women perceive hookup culture differently? A few weeks ago, over a dinner back home in Colorado, I had an unlikely conversation […]

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Question: What if you don’t partake in hookup culture because it’s just not for you? What if you haven’t had sex yet? How do you […]

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Ask Ayla

Welcome to “Ask Ayla.” It’s me, Ayla, and I’m here to answer every funny, stupid, weird, genuine, thoughtful question you’ve ever had about sex and […]

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Here’s to the cataclysm // by Ayla Besemer

A few nights ago, a friend and I went for a long walk up Hillhouse, reveling in one of the last summer evenings before winter […]

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